Fullness, Welcome and Hope | John 6:35-40 | A parish memorial service
On Friday we had the funeral of my mother. Although it is a bit too soon, it is good for me to be here, to remember, together with you. We are coming for them and for us – to say that they matter. Whether their death was a few days ago, a year ago, or many years ago, they mattered to us and they still do matter. We come to remember who they were, what they gave and to express our love. For each of us grief will be different. For me it is a deep sense of sadness and emptiness, and – if I’m honest now – a weariness at what seems the futility of it all. For others it will be an emotional overwhelming, like a huge wave breaking over you. You are swept off your feet and there is nothing to hold on to. Or it may be, especially after the death of a lifelong partner, a sense of utter isolation and loneliness, of being on my own. And no other person will ever really be able to fill that gap, however loving and supporting are our family or friends. And that can all come with a sense of fear. We ...